How flexible are you?

We often say that, we learn from our mistakes. But have ever wondered how far it is relevant?
Just this morning a twisted thought crossed my mind.
How often do we change ourselves?
Not change, at least try or make an attempt to do one? I don't know how often i do. 
But i definitely like to believe that i have changed a lot than the older self to a new annoying one.
But like they say, the old ones know you better than yourself. 
An old friend tells me i haven't changed a bit. And speaking of old friends and new ones, I have come to a point where I can say i have known that person forever.

And coming back to committing mistakes and learning from them has always been a blur. 

Sometimes i feel it is my mistake
Sometimes i felt it was my mistake

Sometimes i feel it is who i am
Sometimes i felt it was what i am made of

Sometimes i feel may be i function only in a certain way
Sometimes i felt my flexibility to adapt is, minimal

And sometimes when i can't find an answer
I believe may be the person is like that and i had to or have to behave the way i had to or have to

Ehhh! You seem a little confused right know!
That's because you are holding on to something!

I don't know whether i have learnt from my mistakes but in the process i have learnt to let go of things that is not mine!

And for that matter, why harbor something, that doesn't even need one!!!

It's not true that we always learn form our mistakes and try to avoid doing the same again. 
Not everything we say or hear is true. 
How you perceive things and how i perceive things are totally different. 
That doesn't make you a saint and me a bitch. That doesn't make you a dog and me an angel.



Your's
I can't be, what i am not!