Well to start with men and their types is very easy! They are not as complicated as women! But yeah i won't say they are easy to understand but definitely a lot simpler than us! And when i say us, that without any doubt refers to women! urghhh! the most complicated ones! And being a woman, i completely agree with the fact! No matter how easy you think you are, deep inside you are that one complicated and unsolved mystery!
Sometimes even the idea of being a woman frustrates me, i can't get a grip on my thoughts! I can't understand my own thoughts!
We don't what we want from life! But now i guess! i know what i want from my life and like always i will not ask for it so... history prevailsssssssss.........
But whatever my choice is or will be, let's us just look deep into the type or for that matter various types of men you meet in your life!
The first one: " One who annoys you in the beginning, ends up as your best friend"
First thing that you notice about this guy is that he is very annoying! You don't like this guy at all. So that one awkward meeting and you think phew! and thank god!!!! it's over! You think he's a starter and ll disappear up even before you notice he was there! With time you meet up and exchange a casual greeting. Still it's on that seesaw phase! But as you meet, you talk and you notice he isn't that bad after all! And like always! you have been hating him for no reason! So give it a chance and you start to know him, understand him better! Then one day you realize that he's a good guy and o course he's your best friend! So what do you do?? you stick to him?? yeah you do sometimes and sometimes not, depending on the circumstance! Cause they say, great friendships can give rise to even greater love stories! So, you take all the necessary precautions and maintain a distance! And you stay friends forever!
And personally what i feel is that you can't know a person enough to keep them or let them go. Cause you start to or should i say, you know them better with each passing day of your life span!
The second one: " The one who laughs with you"
What is the first thing you notice about this guy is his laughter! He's always there to cheer you up! Loves you like a sister, loves you like a friend! Confides in you! Shares a great deal with you. Never misses any chance to make you laugh! So girls do grab a copy of this guy if you find him! Cheers you up even in those days of life! He cares for you and loves talking about everything else except those intricate lines of life! A cool, chilled out guy! He's keeper! He often says " girl! i love you for being you" Never judges you! You are lucky enough if you have one! And if you have one but have not been giving him enough importance, then call him right now and let him know how much you miss him! I will do it for sure. It's time i let go of that false anger and embrace sanity!!! :) I have one! And i definitely treasure him!
The third one: " the one laughs with you, makes you cry and scolds you but in the end he's that one sweet guy!
This one is "the most dangerous guy" living on the planet! Why dangerous! Cause he knows you inside out! You can't even tell a lie or hide something! This guy has a unique tendency to smell that something's wrong with you! He gives you enough space! Enough time to confess and when you don't and he realizes that you have gone way out of your league! He comes right after you, hunts you down and hits you right in the heart!
As a woman, a girl or the weaker sex! You surrender! But then who doesn't want a guy who listens to you, hits you straight in your face when required! He shows you that image, which even the mirror hesitates to show.
And this guy! my friends is a very dear friend - to be a perfect groom soon :P
The fourth one: " The one who stands by you throughout your life, watches your back without saying a word"
Ahh! He's one of a kind! Stays as chilled as a beer (quote borrowed and stolen) . Very helpful and very organised! Helps you organize your calendar You don't even have to bother when matters are in his hand! Is very open about himself. Full of life and full of energy! And if you are a poor conversationalist, you don't have to bother when he is around, fills in that empty space for you! ;) Good at heart and great human being! Always watches you back! Extends that invisible hand of support!
And i will definitely say, if you have one, you are lucky enough.
The fifth one: " The one makes you happier" This one's a critical! Cause with each passing minute you feel you are drowning deep in his love" He is the man of your dreams! A man, a true gentleman not some random guy! And i know how much we women crave for this kinda guy! Only few have him. Few have him but can't have him and most of us fall for him! You love his company, you love his ideas and you love him. Cause he's the only one who fits your check list! And when i say check list! All the girls out there know what is a checklist! We girls, have a checklist for our prince charming! And it starts from the day we start playing "ghar- ghar". But personally i never played that thing.. for me it started when i watched dil to pagal hai! I knew what kind of a man i needed! Yeah whatever! Let's stick to the topic :)
Though as years pass by, the list gets a makeover and ends something like this:
A man! definitely a man!
Tall, dark, handsome!
Looks utterly butterly delicious, when he slips into those pairs of blue denims and a white shirt!
A husky voice!
Strong hands!
Very well sculpted body!
Passionate
And tops the list is a good hearted person, a great listener and who never takes you for granted!
Now if by any chance, a guy is reading this list! He might have started cursing me! But my friend! like you notice how a girl looks on your first meeting we do have a list, whether he fits in well or not! Cause by any chance if you! you my man! what if you don't fit in deep inside! then what are we gonna do! Jokes apart!
There is only one chance when we let go of that list and we are willing to compromise is when we are deeply, irrevocably in love with you! As studies suggest that, love releases those good hormones inside us! So it keeps us happy and happy enough to blind our thoughts! This is the time when we completely dismiss that year old check list saying that it was so immature to have one! But then this is one important part of growing up!
"Nahi samne tu, yeh alag baat hai
Mere pass hai tu, mere saath hai tu"
And if you lucky enough, the fifth one stays with you but you are even more luckier when he becomes your sixth one!
Cause he's the best thing that has ever happened to you!
Enough said! I am not a person who hates man kind! Rather i will say, i am person who is in love!
Love makes you do such madness! ;)
Enjoy the read!
Your's
Love struck me, when i was weak in my knees
Love struck me, when i was looking for something else
Love struck me, when i was lost
Now that it has struck me, it stays!
