Avatar 6-7-8-9.....

 Mouth: You!!
            Go to hell!!
            Screw you!!
            **** off!!!


Brain: awwwww...gud work!


Mind: Ah!! how dare to use such "slangs" !!


Heart: <3 : oh boy!! i agree you are angry!! but just give it a thought you are angry with whom??? It's your friend not  your enemy!! so may be you can give "YOUR friend" a little time, some space ...may be they are going through tough times or so!!! Or may b they are little busy!!!!


Brain & mind: Phew!!! this heart is always so "melodramatic"




This is how it goes i guess...You struggle within.
And this struggle leaves you with no choice than leaving the "being" and moving ahead!!
 I am pretty sure all of us have gone through this kind of a thing at least once in our life-time. To an extent it is mandatory cause everyone is not just perfect!!  Life is not "picture-perfect" after all...


If you ask me what is life!!! I would rather say it's a different platform for all and what we all have in common in is it's up's and down's!! May be that's why it's so damn INTERESTING!!


It all begins like this : Hey you!! will you be my friend forever! or May be we can be best friends!!
Goes on an on an on...days-months-year-years-decades....


Then you are out of some institution with all the phone numbers, mail id, what not postal address for heaven's sake!!


You move on a complete different place ! Ah! a brand new place with no friends...
Now is when you miss your old buddies!! so now you are definitely in touch with them...Then you move on, they move on..
In some cases may b sometimes if you don't bug them, then they are like : Dude what's wrong!!
Or if you are that lucky to have real good friends , if you miss to keep in touch , they definitely stalk you till the end!!


But with some you just loose contacts like that!! Just like that!!  No matter how great buddies you are or you "were"..


So ultimately what you tend to do is just leave them.




But  suddenly one fine day a mail pops in in yr mail box something like this:

DON'T EVER LOOSE THE PERSON U REALLY LOVE ......... .........

Its a good touchy message.

It does

make sense and we should take the time every day

to do what it says.

Around the corner I have

a friend,

In this great city

that has no end,

Yet the days go by

and weeks rush on,

And before I know

it, a year is gone.

And I never see my

old friends face,

For life is a swift

and terrible race,

He knows I like him

just as well,

As in the days when

I rang his bell.

And he rang mine if,

we were younger then,

And now we are busy,

tired men.

Tired of playing a

foolish game,

Tired of trying to

make a name.

"Tomorrow" I say! "I

will call on Jim"

"Just to show that

I'm thinking of him."

But tomorrow comes

and tomorrow goes,

And distance between

us grows and grows.

Around the corner!

yet miles away,

"Here's a telegram

sir" "Jim died today."

And that's what we

get and deserve in the

end.

Around the corner, a

vanished friend.

Remember to always say what you mean.

If you love or like

someone, tell them.

Don't be afraid to express yourself. Reach out and

tell someone what they mean to you. Because when

you decide that it

is the right time it might be too late.

Seize the day. Never have regrets. And most

importantly, stay

close to your friends and family, for they have

helped make you

the person that you are today.

after you have read this you become all that teary -eyed...Then you realize what you have been doing is not fair at all...So, you turn up calling up or meeting them...Few more days pass on...The same saga continues again...


One fine day you get an invitation to attend one friend's sister wedding..You become all that excited cause you will be meeting "them"...You go there and indeed you meet some friends...You are all happy or i guess over -joyed!!


Then again you are back to track ..And you become kinda close friends!! This is what you never expect to be happening...


Then one fine day you literally open up...why you have lost all contacts an all!!


Then here it comes:


Jantu: No girl!! It's always the other way round...You might loose contacts with other people but trust me gal!! never with "bachpan ke dost"... And you take this for granted...






And the name's jantu coz in every human there is a animal living!! :)


There are some people though who never get a chance to go out of their hometown...and we consider them the luckiest in terms of maintaining friendships...And it's all because they can meet up friends and so on...Once you are out of station things change...people change...


But what strikes the author is even these people are worse !! I mean they don't keep in touch ...


And ultimately what you see is a facebook friend request coming up and after few days...He/she is married!!




And sometimes even the author feels, as in "I" feel you should give time to people when they just step outside their over-protected boundary!! As in when they move to a new place with new people...


But what strikes me most is!!


Metallurgist: hii!! how are you?? what;s up wid you...an so on


Person on the other side of the phone: oh hii!... yeh yeh..hey can i call you later am kinda busy right now with my rumie!!


Author: Why the hell  is she busy??
Metallurgist : Busy gossiping wid rumie!!


Author: Wtf!! seriously i just don't get it!!


SO this is what you get to see...


Please can anyone tell me what's going on guys!!!!


And let me introduce you to a different being!! I bet these are one of a kind!!


One of a kind: hey you out there!! Yo ma "best friend"!!


And after everything they just start "avoiding" you !! Can you believe that! Avoiding!!
And here i ask you a question..If at all these"one of kind beasts" have to do this in the end,why the hell do they start all these???
Author's request: Please "BEWARE OF THESE KINDS" Cause it hurts a lot!! Darn it!!!


What ever!! this is how the whole thing is...so COMPLICATED!!






But what i want you to know is, please if you have a friend and he/she is a damn good friend of your's !! Don't ever loose them..No matter what it is! You hardly get such good ones... Go and tell them how important they are!! 




Important: name has been changed as to preserve their actual identity!!!


And but there are some stupid friends they never let go of you, they stalk you, they care for you and o course they love you...


And there are some the author has...And here is something dedicated to them:




They are stupids
They are idiots
They are little rascals


They love you
They hurt you even more
They fight with you
They scold you
They stalk you
They bug you


They inspire you 
They encourage you
They advice you
They compel you to do something that you never want to


They are "friends"
Treasure them!!!






And now you must be wondering why is this post titled "Avatar 6-7-8-9.... That's cause everything starts right from childhood and it continues...Avatar...6-7-8-9 represents different stages of life!! so i guess!!




And o course the author wants to thank some people for role play : The metallurgist, the person on the other side of the phone and last but not the least the one of a kind beast....Last is "Jantu" the character...




Signing off


"The author"