Saturday, February 12, 2011

Relationships part 1


Relationships!! it is what they call it!!
I call it "The covalent bonding"..
          " The symbiosis"
          " The mutualism"

And what else should i say to define "the word RELATIONSHIP". I think we all understand it very well, though its damn complicated but we all have our own way of seeing things.And of course relationships is always not about the beloved , it can be with anyone, may be a friend, a family member, a colleague, a senior, a relative whom you have met in a wedding for the first time in your life or even a stranger travelling with you. It never matters with whom, or what kind of a person he/she is,  but it does matter how well you get along with eachother. Its always the love, attachment and dedication that beholds us together.

Let me share a small story, its about three friends.
So, here it goes:

I think it all started some where in May,2003. Just after my 12th results were out i had applied for some course in VIT, Vellore. I came to know about the university from one of my family friend, and i was damn impressed. So i thought let's give it a try, so in that hot sunny weather i drove all the way to the Head Post office to drop the form. After a few days the  letter arrived that said " you have been selected for the course". It was like a blessing to me. And i do thank the almighty for all these. 
Well all these are the most boring part of this blog  i say but " तड़का लगाने के लिए दाल तो चाहिए ना,  नहीं तो फिर आप तड़का किस्मे लगाओगे " अब फीकी दाल थोड़े ही किसीको रास अति है" क्यूँ मैंने कुछ  गलत बोला ?? 


And here it goes: Journey begins!! Cuttack-Vellore

Then after all that tiring journey i ended up finally in a station called "KATPADI" !! What an unusual name नहीं ?? With all that heavy luggage, hot summer, sweat tricking down my spine,  standing there for an auto..OMg!! it was such an horrible experience, and people out there !!! Hell!!! Trust me it feels damn helpless when you end in a place where neither you understand the language nor the people out there ..But anyhow i managed to reach the place where it was already booked by one my sweet didi. Thanks to " Mamun nani" . and now yes she is happily married and resides in pune. 

That day i had my councelling and all the formalities was done. Aha!! i was overwhelmed as well as a little scared. Overwhelmed cause i was away from home and scared cause it was completely a new place for me. Bang!! here comes an end to all that " sweeeet, homely, overprotected life at home" .. aha!! trust me i was so happy to let go of that life.
The very same day i met my very good friend ( then a teenager, now he insists i call him a responsible man!). Do i really need to write about him??? 
 My first reaction OMG!! never knew we would be such good friends. But i am glad we are.

Then here comes the entry of the second musketeer "Debashree" and after all these years of friendship, there has been a little mutation to her name..So, here is how the mutation goes: Debasree-Debashree- Shona-sona-SHon-pogu :). ..SHe a very sweet girl i think i have known her for along time know, so its not fair if i just say she is very sweet. A very versatile person indeed, good at heart and a wonderful person i have ever met in my life :) What strikes you most is she has those innocent looking eyes. And i am glad that she is my friend. She's been there with me from those undergraduation days -postgraduation- job . The most important thing is she's a bengoli but stays in Assam...Bells ringing?? No..Let me explain...People usually think if you are bengoli you are definitely from West bengal...So people those come in contact with her still wonder what the hell is she doing in Guwahati.....One more thing,  i think i want to bring about here is till date people get confused with our names..so its perfect if i say the saga continues :)

And the one smiling brightly in there is the SECOND musketeer "SHON". :)

Then comes the "THRID MUSKETEER" . Her entry was little different. She missed our councelling. What i came to know was that i was sharing my double storied bunk with someone called "Smita Khandelwal"..
The surname , i know i know, its catchy and your guess is absolutely correct. She is a marwadi but way far different from the typical ones. She's another one of our gang. GANG!! han.. whatever...again the journey with her still continues. Now we share a house, the department and o course happiness, sadness and everything. This very human that am talking about is highly enthusiastic,playful, loving, caring and " one who always keeps her THINGS in place" or should i say" People meet  "The organised cancerian :) 
The one with her "Gogs" on!! is the one i have been talking about this long.
                                               " The organised Cancerian"

Now you must be wondering who the First MUSKETEER is .....vooo hooo...Its Me!!! :) Cause i am the one who's writing..remember???

Oops!! i did forget somone..You know who Its our very own बिहारी दोस्त, हाँ  सही पहचाना "Vivek ".
And you have to damn careful when you talk about this guy...Cause for him"" LOOKS ARE DECEPTIVE".. Trust me it goes damn well with his image!! I just called him a Bihari OMG!!!! Oh no!! is he..never..it can't be!!.Its just that he lives in Darbhanga but ऐसे देखा जाये तो यार बिहारी वाले कोई लक्षण ही नहीं hain :).He's one of the most decent kinda guy i have ever met in my life and the "guru" of our खिंचागाया, फेकागायी, bhulagya , and what not " LUcky, Shona ,    SMita खिंचाग्यी ... wali hindi :) lolzzzzzzzz
Let me have the privilage to introduce soon going to be Dr. Vivek Singh Rajput..:P  
 This whole friendship thing started  way back in may -june-august 2003. But i was actually enjoyed their company in my third year of graduation. Now you must be wondering i knew these idiots since long then why did it all start in my final year.. Cause before that i was little busy with my "other friends".. And other friends includes my good friend that i think i have introduced to you and my rumie o course. But later something happened and i broke that invisible boundary and broke free!! 
But whatever it was, till date am glad i broke free.....
Enough said!!
Here ends my " small story" ..Of course it is not small..nevermind.
 But its not yet over.

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