Saturday, May 3, 2014

Why are we judgmental?

I often get confused while judging your character. Then i think why take the pain of judging you, let me drop this case and move on. But then moving on, as i always say is never easy. It just withers with time and puts a rest to my ever restless mind. That's all it does!

But don't we judge people every now and then. I think i do.Though i give it a million thoughts the very next moment but i judge, i get judged too. I get judged every now and then. I think it's a part of our human nature. Though it's really amazing if you don't judge at the very first sight. And some might not even call it a judgement, just an opinion might do the trick! :)

Alrightiee then! The real challenge is i will write a piece today. And i will write it alone, without you!

Yeah so.... not deviating from the topic, as i was saying- we judge! And we do that very often! Ever wondered why we do this??
Naah you wouldn't have! Cause that's my job! I always wonder and wander! Speaking of which, i might elope somewhere someday and mark my words! Just alone! I think i can buy me some "me time". Isn't that my "haq"?? 

Deviating for the soul topic, i think it has become my trait. Nevermind!! Getting back to the topic. 

Sometimes i feel, we judge because our brain can't stop thinking for one second. But if it stops, then al together that's a different scenario. Let's skip that part. 
Yeah so...Normally with every action potential, generates a new thought which makes it a million thoughts running through the mind at the same time! Some might be just an illusion and some might be delusional. But it always depends on you what you pick! Isn't it always this way! And well as a part of the genetic makeup, we get lured by the Satan and we tend to pick the wrong set of illusions! And if you look at it at a broader scale everything is first an illusion. You are the one who gives it a shape, who chooses it to be how it should be! Rather i would say, you choose everything. 

You choose everything
You choose your actions
You chooses your words
You choose your fate
You choose yours thoughts
You choose your judgments
You choose your deeds
You choose your disappointments
You choose your misdeeds
You choose your luck
You choose dare
You choose the truth

Not entirely true and factual but then everything has a reason if you dare to look for one! But then do you dare? 

Getting judged by people was once a biggest fear! Has been that way for quite some time. But then a time comes when even the strangest person in the whole wide world knows you better  than the person standing next to you! There comes a time when you realize that nothing matters after all. As long as you are able to hold your sanity in one place it doesn't matter at all, but the moment you loose it, you seem to fear what the world will think of you. But trust me, if you can, letting go of things are never easy and you can never let go of things, you learn to adapt. And once you know that it no longer bothers you, you are happy! 

I have seen people, for that matter quite a lot. 

Some say they know me well enough to even understand my unspoken words but are deaf enough to hear what i have to say.
Some say they can sense my despair, my agony and my pain.
Some say they can hear my happiness.
Some say they choose to ignore everything that concerns me.
Some say they are part of me, but i feel that part falling apart.
Some say they are my song, but i never sing that song.
Some say they are my lyrics, but i never scribble them.

People said, People say and they will continue to say so many things they never meant, and why does it bother me every time they say something do surreal?

The point is you judge and you get judged, and it will continue to be so. What matters is the quality or pattern of thinking that you construct later. 

Stop right there before your ruin it. Give it a thought even if you are afraid to do so. 

Your's
And i thought too much sanity will take me everywhere
And i thought too much insanity will make me sane

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