Monday, May 30, 2011

Alone or lonely !! Whatever!!

I am a big fan of movies!! Earlier it was only hindi movies but as i grew up the taste in movies of course got changed!! And till now i don know how many i have watched but definitely once you start watching these holly wood movies, you never seem to turn back to bollwood...Cos in our bollywood it's always a happy-happy ending!! And trust me every living being in this earth wants a happy ending!! I guess sometimes watching that fantasy, we try to picture ourselves in that "perfect picture"!!

What i meant to put forth is that in movies when they show something devastating happens!! Comes the next dialogue" Leave me alone"!! And i so love this dialogue!!! to make an impact factor on the listener, it is spilled with an angry-teary eyed kinda expression..That was of course a reel life situation.

When it comes to real-life situations , we definitely need some time alone!! May be to think, to make the right decisions, mental piece or may be to plan for future or something like that!! The reason for being alone is not immaterial after all!! Everyone needs some time alone, but no one wants to be lonely..

Now what is this alone or lonely!! What difference does these words make?? They are kinda two similar meaning words...Even if we use any one of them, what difference does it make anyway!!
 But when i look at it, i find the difference..

I enjoy being alone , but hate being lonely..

I don't know why i am writing this piece of thought!! Even it is relevant or irrelevant!! I dont know what rules apply to such a weirdo thought!! But as i always say, the mind rules the brain!! And there are thousand of dormant thoughts that cross the mind, only few get a chance to fertilize. So i guess this one among them..

There are different ways of abstinence from that daily-routine, taking some time off to just lie down and relax..May be some good music, a good novel or may be some a good movie..

When you just lie down with that good playing list playing on the i-pod!! Ah!! it gives an immense satisfaction, a contentment, peace flowing through your nerves..

But nothing can beat this, sitting all alone by yourself, with a hot steaming cup of coffee enjoying the time...

I have seen people do this, earlier when i was a kid i really used to wonder how this "leave me alone" stuff helps ..Cos what i knew was, when if you are sad or something bothers you, you just speak about that to someone close to you. And the next moment you feel so relaxed.But as you grow up situations change, thoughts change, and that some close changes..

So do spend sometime alone...Who knows you might find answers to some unsolved mysteries :)



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