Often we find ourselves in this particular situation, struggling between the two ends. One is so near and the other is so far yet you want to reach both. How is that even possible at the same time??
So here goes my next blog, the science of acceptance and non-acceptance.
What is this acceptance?
The dictionary defines as the act of receiving or taking things.
And nonacceptance: is something that i define as - things that you are not able to take in.
This is not just some term, instead this a very precious emotion that everyone experiences at least once in their lifetime. And of course we humans have the liberty to feel emotions and display it too..But it is not the same for the kind-eyed animals though.
This struggle between the theory of acceptance and non-acceptance is always there..Cos this is something that you can't gain control over.
Wise men of all the time ..Errr.. wise women too..as in what i mean is all these wise old people, after living those many years say that:
"The early you accept things the way they are
The late you live with peace and harmony"
I don't know which of these old people say all these but definitely this is all manipulated, tampered form of the advice actually..Basically the whole wise lines convey: Dude!! Move on! hah!
But don't know how far these morals are useful...Seriously if you ask me..from my point of view it's actually that difficult as it looks...Thank god!
Just for instance if i say for just an example, for me it is damn difficult..The hard i try, the more i get immersed in it!! But the moment i stop thinking about that whatever , now that does help.
What exactly i am trying to say is acceptance is an easy job...You forget everything and you accept. But the stage before that, you think-re-think and again think...And after a war within you, you finally accept it.. But the safari before that...You definitely don't enjoy that..
And the hypothesis or theory or rule or what ever you call it...of non-acceptance...Why does this even happen??
Cos you don't agree
Cos you are hurt
Cos you are angry
Cos your trust is very strong
Cos you love is too matured
Cos your idea of going along s too firm
It can be due to many reasons. Not just one and sometime it can be multi-faceted...
Can a small hole, and the whole thing slips in through that. Then you revolve around the war of acceptance and non-acceptance.
For instance just say even if after that battle of yes-no-no-yes you accept the thing..But what about those old rusted memories...yes what about them?? Neither every one is gifted with amnesia nor with some remote so when you click that red button, those old rusted memories vanish....
At this particular point, i sincerely wish i have such a remote!! That would be extra cream over a cold alluring coffee! But personally i dont like cold coffee..So for me i will be an extra strong hot coffee wid those alluring smell of roasted coffee beans...( oh oh oh !! my thoughts!! i gotta control them)
Sometimes non acceptance can be a form of blessing..How?? Cos sometimes we become tired of this daily battle, so wee seek a whole new path to climb those stairs of life..And this new chapter opens to you with all that vitality inviting you in..Something so strong, so joy full, so balanced.....You step into those shoes of happiness..
Do you actually accept things that are difficult to??
Nah!! It just you move on. Otherwise the normal human tendency never allows such dazzling transformations...
Though it does allow to trade things your way...
There is no such strict rules for acceptance..Play it your way!! And you win!!
Cos babe! Life's a handful of air! You can neither hold it nor can you let it go!!!!
And if you ask me what is my madness all about??
I would say it's just a lil break from my daily being
A break from being my routine"me"
So here goes my next blog, the science of acceptance and non-acceptance.
What is this acceptance?
The dictionary defines as the act of receiving or taking things.
And nonacceptance: is something that i define as - things that you are not able to take in.
This is not just some term, instead this a very precious emotion that everyone experiences at least once in their lifetime. And of course we humans have the liberty to feel emotions and display it too..But it is not the same for the kind-eyed animals though.
This struggle between the theory of acceptance and non-acceptance is always there..Cos this is something that you can't gain control over.
Wise men of all the time ..Errr.. wise women too..as in what i mean is all these wise old people, after living those many years say that:
"The early you accept things the way they are
The late you live with peace and harmony"
I don't know which of these old people say all these but definitely this is all manipulated, tampered form of the advice actually..Basically the whole wise lines convey: Dude!! Move on! hah!
But don't know how far these morals are useful...Seriously if you ask me..from my point of view it's actually that difficult as it looks...Thank god!
Just for instance if i say for just an example, for me it is damn difficult..The hard i try, the more i get immersed in it!! But the moment i stop thinking about that whatever , now that does help.
What exactly i am trying to say is acceptance is an easy job...You forget everything and you accept. But the stage before that, you think-re-think and again think...And after a war within you, you finally accept it.. But the safari before that...You definitely don't enjoy that..
And the hypothesis or theory or rule or what ever you call it...of non-acceptance...Why does this even happen??
Cos you don't agree
Cos you are hurt
Cos you are angry
Cos your trust is very strong
Cos you love is too matured
Cos your idea of going along s too firm
It can be due to many reasons. Not just one and sometime it can be multi-faceted...
Can a small hole, and the whole thing slips in through that. Then you revolve around the war of acceptance and non-acceptance.
For instance just say even if after that battle of yes-no-no-yes you accept the thing..But what about those old rusted memories...yes what about them?? Neither every one is gifted with amnesia nor with some remote so when you click that red button, those old rusted memories vanish....
At this particular point, i sincerely wish i have such a remote!! That would be extra cream over a cold alluring coffee! But personally i dont like cold coffee..So for me i will be an extra strong hot coffee wid those alluring smell of roasted coffee beans...( oh oh oh !! my thoughts!! i gotta control them)
Sometimes non acceptance can be a form of blessing..How?? Cos sometimes we become tired of this daily battle, so wee seek a whole new path to climb those stairs of life..And this new chapter opens to you with all that vitality inviting you in..Something so strong, so joy full, so balanced.....You step into those shoes of happiness..
Do you actually accept things that are difficult to??
Nah!! It just you move on. Otherwise the normal human tendency never allows such dazzling transformations...
Though it does allow to trade things your way...
There is no such strict rules for acceptance..Play it your way!! And you win!!
Cos babe! Life's a handful of air! You can neither hold it nor can you let it go!!!!
And if you ask me what is my madness all about??
I would say it's just a lil break from my daily being
A break from being my routine"me"
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